Do you ever think about the friends you have in life…and wonder what it is that resulted in the friendship?
I love my friends…from my school friends to my college friends to my uni friends and work friends. The ones I have made the effort to continue to keep in touch with and who have also put in the effort themselves. But sometimes, I think about some friends and wonder — what is it that we have in common? Why are we friends? Why did we become friends in the first place? How close are we really?
There are times when I reflect on conversations with a few friends in particular and seriously questioning things. I find myself thinking “Are you seriously asking me that?” I wonder if we are friends just because we did psychology and during those times could talk about assignments. Yes I can whinge to them about my day at work…but for some reason, there is nothing else to talk about. And it’s weird. And then I wonder…some years down the track…will we have anything to talk about? Or I wonder…if we didn’t do xyz together, would we have ever managed to be friends given that we are so different? Or that if it weren’t for the two or three other people in the group, we probably would not be friends.
Maybe it’s just me that thinks stuff like this. I guess I am over-thinking.
After all, Sheldon manages to have good friends despite being so different from them! =) [Yes, watching Big Bang Theory at the moment]
But seriously…do you ever wonder about this?
Just want to put this out there…
Until next time,