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National Child Protection Week

Here in Australia, National Child Protection Week is from the 4th to the 11th of September. Child protection is all about keeping children safe. Safe from emotional, physical and sexual abuse and neglect.

As a mandatory reporter who works with children and adolescents, I am legally bound to report any signs of the above to Community Services. However, what happens if I see things outside of work? For kids and teens not being seen by me for therapy. Like say, I see signs of physical abuse on the kid next door. Or hear domestic violence in my neighbour’s house and know there is a child to witness it all.

I am not mandated to report.

But I still can.

I think if anything, this National Child Protection Week, that would be the message to pass on to people. To intervene if you see or know a child is being abused. And not just sit quietly on the sidelines. You do not have to be a mandatory reporter to make a report to Community Services if you suspect a child being abused.

People worry about making reports because they automatically think the child will be taken away from their parents but the truth is, that is generally the last resort. Community services will see if there are other reports against the parent and check out the facts first.

I can imagine several people thinking “Why should I interfere in someone else’s family life?” Here’s why.

Ongoing domestic violence can have an adverse impact on the development of the child’s brain. Prolonged exposure to stress results in elevated cortisol levels in the brain and this affects the manner in which the brain responds to stress. The child may end up being more anxious, hypervigilant, have poor attachment with their parents and others, or get depressed. [Source] In a domestic violent situation, children can get hurt physically as well and in extreme cases, are at risk of brain injury.

In adolescence, victims of ongoing DV or abuse, are more likely to engage in self-harm and risk taking behaviours including drug and alcohol abuse. Teens who are victims of abuse are more likely to have difficulty eating, sleeping and concentrating and may not care about things in their life. [Source] They are also more at risk of developing mental health problems including post-traumatic stress disorder, depressive disorders and anxiety disorders.

Most unfortunately, children and adolescents do not always disclose abuse. They are either scared or have been threatened to not say a word. There is also the fear that the family may break up and even though some of them may realise that it’s better to be out, they still hold themselves responsible. And that is why they need a voice.

They need someone to speak up for them.

To look out for them. Even if it is Joe Blo next door.

Legally we don’t have to interfere. But morally, it may be a different story.

Think of it this way — if adults don’t stand up for a child’s safety, who will?

Until next time,

Cheers!!!

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  • Reply
    Prathama Raghavan
    September 3, 2011 at 7:26 am

    I work with children and adolescents too and have worked with physically and sexually abused children in the past.

    Totally agree with you. In many cases conjugal violence means child abuse too, so the two closely interrelated.

    A topic on which discussion and awareness are increasingly important. Thanks for bringing it up.

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    Prathama Raghavan
    September 3, 2011 at 7:26 am

    I work with children and adolescents too and have worked with physically and sexually abused children in the past.

    Totally agree with you. In many cases conjugal violence means child abuse too, so the two closely interrelated.

    A topic on which discussion and awareness are increasingly important. Thanks for bringing it up.

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    Psych Babbler
    September 3, 2011 at 7:32 am

    You’re a psych too, aren’t you? Some of the abuse some of these kids go through is horrendous…something needs to be done about it and the kids need to be given a voice.

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    Psych Babbler
    September 3, 2011 at 7:32 am

    You’re a psych too, aren’t you? Some of the abuse some of these kids go through is horrendous…something needs to be done about it and the kids need to be given a voice.

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    Prathama Raghavan
    September 6, 2011 at 7:12 am

    Yes I am a psych too 🙂

    Loving your blog. Did I say?

  • Reply
    Prathama Raghavan
    September 6, 2011 at 7:12 am

    Yes I am a psych too 🙂

    Loving your blog. Did I say?

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    Psych Babbler
    September 6, 2011 at 10:43 am

    🙂 Thanks Prathama…and might I say, ditto back!

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    Psych Babbler
    September 6, 2011 at 10:43 am

    🙂 Thanks Prathama…and might I say, ditto back!

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    adayinlifeofmom
    September 9, 2011 at 6:59 pm

    I agree with you if adults won’t stand up for children, then who will? I come from the home where we (kids) were beaten black and blue, used to have bruises on our body, sometimes we were locked in dark room without food etc in name of punishment.. and punishment for what? I don’t know.. I used to shiver whenever my father used to call my name..because I knew I am going to get beaten now..no matter what..

    I am not saying I know exactly how every child feels but I had felt unwanted and unworthy..
    As I was writing this I realized my eyes are moist..Sorry for hijacking your post,  I have promised myself never ever expose my daughter to that kind of environment and do whatever I can to those kids in need…

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    adayinlifeofmom
    September 9, 2011 at 6:59 pm

    I agree with you if adults won’t stand up for children, then who will? I come from the home where we (kids) were beaten black and blue, used to have bruises on our body, sometimes we were locked in dark room without food etc in name of punishment.. and punishment for what? I don’t know.. I used to shiver whenever my father used to call my name..because I knew I am going to get beaten now..no matter what..

    I am not saying I know exactly how every child feels but I had felt unwanted and unworthy..
    As I was writing this I realized my eyes are moist..Sorry for hijacking your post,  I have promised myself never ever expose my daughter to that kind of environment and do whatever I can to those kids in need…

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    adayinlifeofmom
    September 9, 2011 at 7:00 pm

    And I love your blog. thanks for providing useful information

  • Reply
    adayinlifeofmom
    September 9, 2011 at 7:00 pm

    And I love your blog. thanks for providing useful information

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    Psych Babbler
    September 10, 2011 at 11:05 pm

    Thanks for sharing this Adayinlifeofmom. I really appreciate it as I know it can be hard to re-live those memories. I think you have described what most kids in your situation would feel. I think though it’s good that you recognise the severity and know you wouldn’t put your own kids through that. And don’t ever apologise for ‘hijacking’ posts!!! You haven’t done that at all…I think it helps when people share first-hand experiences…all I have to give is what I see with my clients. I used to think my parents were horrible and mean but it’s nothing like what you described or what I see with my clients.

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    Psych Babbler
    September 10, 2011 at 11:05 pm

    Thanks for sharing this Adayinlifeofmom. I really appreciate it as I know it can be hard to re-live those memories. I think you have described what most kids in your situation would feel. I think though it’s good that you recognise the severity and know you wouldn’t put your own kids through that. And don’t ever apologise for ‘hijacking’ posts!!! You haven’t done that at all…I think it helps when people share first-hand experiences…all I have to give is what I see with my clients. I used to think my parents were horrible and mean but it’s nothing like what you described or what I see with my clients.

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    Psych Babbler
    September 10, 2011 at 11:05 pm

    Thanks! 🙂

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    Psych Babbler
    September 10, 2011 at 11:05 pm

    Thanks! 🙂

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