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Peace on earth

The grandmother died. Yesterday.

Exactly one year and one day after my mum’s bypass surgery.

I won’t pretend to be sorry. I’m just relieved.

I understand it might be hard for my dad. After all, no matter what I thought of the woman, at the end of the day, she was still his mother.

But now my parents can finally start living their lives. Finally.

Peace shall now hopefully prevail back in their house. And hopefully, the next time I see them, they won’t look as aged as the last few times. 

Until next time,

Cheers!!!

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    Bikram
    November 8, 2011 at 10:53 am

    I am sorry to hear of the demise, please pass my condolensces to your dad.  May you Grandma rest in peace … 

    I understand what you are saying Fully as I seen it myself .. 
    take care 
    Bikram’s

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    Bikram
    November 8, 2011 at 10:53 am

    I am sorry to hear of the demise, please pass my condolensces to your dad.  May you Grandma rest in peace … 

    I understand what you are saying Fully as I seen it myself .. 
    take care 
    Bikram’s

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    Richa
    November 8, 2011 at 1:16 pm

    It’s weird but I want to say congratulations. Never thought I will say that on anyone’s death. Well may be Osama but not someone’s grandmother.

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    Richa
    November 8, 2011 at 1:16 pm

    It’s weird but I want to say congratulations. Never thought I will say that on anyone’s death. Well may be Osama but not someone’s grandmother.

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    ScribbyScribs
    November 8, 2011 at 5:47 pm

    I’m sorry to hear this PB..hugs ! I know your feeling right now but nevertheless she was your granny and somewhere it’s your loss as well…but I’m glad on the larger side things will fall in place…

    don’t take me wrong!

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    ScribbyScribs
    November 8, 2011 at 5:47 pm

    I’m sorry to hear this PB..hugs ! I know your feeling right now but nevertheless she was your granny and somewhere it’s your loss as well…but I’m glad on the larger side things will fall in place…

    don’t take me wrong!

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    Psych Babbler
    November 9, 2011 at 3:39 am

    Thanks Bikram for understanding…and will pass on the condolences to my dad.

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    Psych Babbler
    November 9, 2011 at 3:40 am

    🙂 I know…it’s weird, isn’t it? But like I said…I can’t pretend to be upset because I am not. And yeah, I don’t think I ever wanted anyone dead ever…except her.

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    Psych Babbler
    November 9, 2011 at 3:42 am

    Scribby, honestly…I’m not feeling bad. I didn’t even shed a tear whereas back in 2006, when my mum called me to tell me her father died, I was sobbing and felt sad for days. This time I am truly relieved. 🙂

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    Jake
    November 9, 2011 at 12:42 pm

    you think she is looking up and regretting how she treated people ? 

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    nisha punjabi
    November 9, 2011 at 1:00 pm

    Reading this, I just wish to die with my shoes on and not make anyone, anyone look aged because of my presence. 

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    Raindrop
    November 10, 2011 at 9:42 am

    You are so straightforward and honest. 
    here’s hoping that both the deceased and the living are finally able to find peace. 
    Hugs

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    RESTLESS
    November 10, 2011 at 2:10 pm

    Condolence for the demise of ur grand mother.

    I understand ur angst…. people make choices… which makes them live even after they are gone- good or bad… is their choice.

    we have so much to learn from this….

    take care

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    nidsitis
    November 10, 2011 at 5:55 pm

    I hope your mother learns to be at peace. 🙂

    And I know you are relieved. 🙂 Let the women finally rest.

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    Maddie
    November 11, 2011 at 8:52 am

    Here after a long time PB.

    Condolences to your dad. I hope now your parents have a peaceful life. As for you, I believe you will be content and peaceful.

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    Shas
    November 11, 2011 at 1:30 pm

    May her soul rest in peace and the peace prevails.
    Take care

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    Psych Babbler
    November 12, 2011 at 5:32 am

    Not sure she knows what regret it Jake…but she’s looking up all right. In fact, it took a lot of self-control on my part when on FB a cousin commented that she is looking down on all of us to comment on that with  ‘don’t you mean looking up’…but if I do, my parents are going to cop some flak! 😛 

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    Psych Babbler
    November 12, 2011 at 5:37 am

    I guess Nisha as long as you are not narcissistic like my grandmother was, everything will be fine! 

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    Psych Babbler
    November 12, 2011 at 5:38 am

    Yep I am Raindrop…I find that I can’t lie very well…and yes, hopefully they will now find peace…

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    Psych Babbler
    November 12, 2011 at 6:38 am

    I’ll pass on the condolences to my dad Restless…thanks for the comment…

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    Psych Babbler
    November 12, 2011 at 6:39 am

    I hope so too Nids…just hoping now my parents don’t have guilt instead…knowing them it’s quite likely! 😐

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    Psych Babbler
    November 12, 2011 at 6:39 am

    Thanks Maddie…I’ll pass it on. I do hope now that they can live their lives! 

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    Psych Babbler
    November 12, 2011 at 6:40 am

    Hoping the peace prevails Shas…thanks for the comment…

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    Avada Kedavra
    November 15, 2011 at 1:17 pm

    Congrats PB! I just wish mine would die soon too 🙁

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    Psych Babbler
    November 16, 2011 at 8:06 am

    I totally empathise Ava! Fingers crossed…

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